Know Your Juggle
As Educators we have many responsibilities to our students, their families, our coworkers, team mates, and school administration. We strive to stay in compliance with curricular requirements, state standards, and laws that stipulate what we teach and how we teach it. Dr. Larry Selaty was a professor at Wayne State University and a Special Education administrator in a large school district in the suburbs of metro Detroit. As a young man, Dr. Selaty served his country as a “Tunnel Rat” in the Vietnam War. When he finally returned home after surviving a horrific imprisonment as a Prisoner of War, he completed his college education and became an educator.
I had the opportunity to work with Dr. Selaty a few years ago in a graduate class at Wayne State. Based on his extensive experiences, Dr. Selaty had a unique perspective on life. One evening, Dr. Selaty taught us something that changed the way I view my life and make decisions. He asked the class if anyone knew how to juggle. None of us were willing to admit they could juggle. Nevertheless, Dr. Selaty pulled three tennis balls from his briefcase and informed us that we were all expert jugglers. He said as educators we constantly juggle the variety of responsibilities that we take care of each day. He said we keep this juggle going throughout the day and even as more balls are added to the juggle, we strive to keep control over them. Dr. Selaty suddenly stopped juggling. “You know what’s important?” he said. “You need to know what you are juggling.” He went on to explain that some of the “balls” we juggle are rubber and some are glass. If we let a rubber ball fall out of our juggle it will bounce and we can work it back into our juggle when we are ready for it. However, if we let a glass ball fall out of our juggle that ball is not going to bounce. It will shatter and we will not have the opportunity to get it back.
Knowing the difference between the rubber balls and glass balls you juggle can change the way you plan your work and work your plan. Take a blank sheet of paper and fold it in half. On one half make a list of the professional responsibilities you consider to be glass balls. These are tasks that simply cannot drop out of your juggle. On the other half of the paper, list your rubber balls, responsibilities that will bounce back if you have to let them fall out of your juggle on occasion. When you are done assembling your lists, you may want to turn the paper over and repeat the process, this time reflecting on your personal life. Do you have responsibilities in your personal life? I know I do. Besides being an educator, I am a husband, a father, a son, a brother, an uncle, a friend…I am a person that juggles a lot of balls both at home and school. I imagine as a dedicated educator, you juggle a lot of balls too.
Less than a year after I completed Dr. Selaty’s class he was killed in a car accident while vacationing in Florida. His legacy lives on in many ways for his family, friends, and students. For me, Dr. Selaty will be remembered as a respected teacher that introduced me to a talent I didn’t know I had. I can juggle and so can you!

